Trope it Up: Single Parent Romances

Posted March 12th, 2016 by in Blog, Features, Trope it Up / 24 comments

Trope it Up: Single Parent Romances

If you love reading romance novels as much as we do here at HJ, you definitely have a trope or two that you love to read about.

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Today we are Troping up on Single Parent Romances

 
I recently had a conversation with a friend about her love of romances involving divorced or widowed characters with children and I thought this would make a great discussion topic for Trope It Up!
 
They are a type of second chance romance, but not the kind where the characters knew each other when they were younger and reconnect, or marriage in trouble stories. (We’ve had a trope it up post on that theme already, called Second Chance Romances or Reunion Stories which you can find in the blog archives).
 
I’m strictly speaking about single parent men or women who meet that special someone willing to take on the extra responsibility of being a step-parent. I think someone who is willing to step up to the plate and be a parent figure for their partner’s child is definitely hero or heroine material.
 
So here are my top stories in this category ( all from the contemporary romance genre)- and I’m limiting it to parents with children who are teenagers or younger, with a mix of single father and single mother main characters.

 

Recommendations:

 
Bringing Home the Bad Boy by Jessica Lemmon – Since his wife died 5 years before, Evan is still lost in his grief, though he knows that his son needs him to end their seclusion and move on with their lives. His wife’s best friend Charlotte shares their grief, and together they find a way to move on, though they both must deal with the guilt of their new-found feelings for each other.
 
Can’t Get Enough by Molly McLain – Tony has a beautiful infant daughter that his ex is not able to care for, resulting in him having custody of her. He meets his visiting neighbour Nicole and a love affair ensues even though she doesn’t plan to stay in town. But she can’t resist Tony for long and she’s got to decide whether uprooting her life for him and his daughter will be worth the risk.
 
Love on a Spring Morning by Zoe York – Ryan is devastated when his wife dies unexpectedly and he’s left taking care of their young children. The last thing he needs is a Hollywood superstar coming to town and making him take an interest in having another relationship when he’s still recovering. But Holly’s patience and kindness soon make him realize that moving forward might be okay after all.
 
What to do with a Bad Boy by Marie Harte – Mike already has his hands full with his family and his son and still grieves the loss of his wife. But Delilah comes into his life and challenges him to think about what he really wants for his future.
 
Unwrapping Her Perfect Match by Kat Latham – John is a sexy rugby player with a mostly estranged 10 year old daughter who lives with her mother. He meets Gwen at a party and they hit it off immediately. When he enlists Gwen’s aid to help care for his daughter during her Christmas visit, it’s the beginning of a wonderful and heartwarming relationship.
 
Carolina Home by Virginia Kantra – Mike’s been raising his teenage son alone ever since his wife left him when Josh was an infant. When Josh’s teacher Allison comes to speak to Mike about some concerns she has over Josh’s grades, it’s the start of a sexy fling that turns into a committed relationship.
 
Worth the Fall by Claudia Connor – One of my favourite reads of 2014, this is a beautiful love story about a widowed woman with four (yes 4!) children and pregnant with a 5th. Now any man that’s going to take on that responsibility is definitely a hero in my eyes, and it was wonderful to see Matt go the distance for this woman he meets on a beach with whom he falls madly in love.
 
A Woman’s Worth by Audra North – Chantal’s ex-husband is a real jerk, leaving her without financial support for their two sons, and she’s getting used to being a single parent. A sexy fling with her boss Ronan is just the ticket to get her back on the road to regaining her self confidence.
 
Coming Undone by Lauren Dane -Elise has escaped a bad marriage and taken her young daughter with her, ready to start living her life in a new home town. Meeting handsome and single Brody gives her the chance to discover what a loving relationship really looks like.
 
Marine for Hire by Tawna Fenske – Sheridan has 7 month old twins and when her brothers hire Sam to be her nanny they neglect to mention that he’s one of their brothers’ in arms (and she’s sworn off military men for good!). Lots of laugh out loud moments in this one!
 
Jordan by Lori Foster -Part of the successful Buckhorn series, Jordan is a single veterinarian who meets an exotic dancer, Georgia, doing her best to provide for her two young children. He brings them into the Hudson family and shows them that Buckhorn is a town worth living in.
 
The Perfect Play by Jaci Burton – Sexy football player Mick meets his match with single mom and event planner Tara. Tara’s got a solid head on her shoulders and she’s determined not to be swayed by Mick’s fame and fortune, so it will take some extra effort on Mick’s part to convince Tara that his playboy days are over.
 
Can’t Hurry Love by Molly O’Keefe – Widow Victoria is ranch bound with her son, taking over her birthright and trying to ignore sexy ranchhand Eli, to no avail -especially since Eli thinks the ranch should be his. An opposites attract romance and my favourite of the Crooked Creek Ranch series.
 
Along Came Trouble by Ruthie Knox – Ellen is an accomplished lawyer and a happy single parent to her son, so Caleb, the bodyguard her famous brother hires, is not particularly welcome even though she knows it’s for her own safety. Caleb gets under her skin – and into her bed- in this delightful and sexy romance.
 
Can’t Help Falling in Love by Bella Andre – The Sullivans series is a favourite of mine, and none more so than Gabe’s story, where he rescues Megan and her seven year old daughter from a fire. The conflict of whether her feelings for him are genuine or as a result of his heroic deed is what drives the story.
 
 

I’d love to know if you’ve read any of these stories! Feel free to add your own recommendations in the comments.

 
 

Maria Rose

 

 

 

24 Responses to “Trope it Up: Single Parent Romances”

  1. smutmatters

    I loved Bringing Home the Bad Boy! I liked Worth the Fall a lot, too. I recently finished Capturing Peace by Molly McAdams and really enjoyed it, too. Recently discharged military man meeting a woman with a seven-year-old.

    For me, a lot of the success or failure on this trope depends on the kid or kids. They’re obviously going to be an important part of the book; you can’t be a parent without your kids being your entire world. They need to be fully fleshed-out characters for me to enjoy it. Just like any other main character. They can’t be written as cliched “teenager who’s a brat” “young child with a bad attitude” “Wise-beyond-their-years child with a lisp”. They can’t just pop in to hilariously disrupt their parents date, the go away and not be seen again until the next date. But they also can’t take over the entire story. It’s a romance novel, after all. It’s a fine line, and I know it’s difficult. I don’t read a ton of single parent romances for exactly that reason. But when it’s done well, like Bringing Home the Bad Boy or Capturing Peace, it’s so good.

    • Maria Rose

      Thanks for your comment! I totally agree with you, and a few years ago I would have told you that I don’t really care for romances with children. But obviously, I’ve found enough good ones lately to change my mind. (and none of these have bratty or annoying kids, or ones that try to sabotage the adult’s relationship). It’s not a trope that I normally seek out, but I was surprised that I’d read and enjoyed enough of them to make it post-worthy 🙂

  2. Kathleen O

    I love this trope.. I have read a few of the above mentioned books.. Belle Andre, Jaci Burton, Molly O’Keefe, Virginia Kantra, and Kat Latham.. I have a few of the other books on my kindle or in paperback and I see a couple of more that I need to put there. When it comes to books that have kids involved the stories become a good balance of characters.

  3. Banana cake

    I have read six of the books on this list. I love this trope surprisingly since I have no children or the desire to have them. I know that Robyn Carr has a couple of books in this trope in both her Virgin River and Thunder Point series. Susan Mallery also has a few in her Fools Gold series.

    • Maria Rose

      Maybe it’s a way to see how the other half lives, without having to deal with the actual kids! Thanks for commenting 🙂

    • Maria Rose

      Exactly, it’s nice to know that just because you’ve ended up as a single parent doesn’t mean your love life has to be over!

  4. Maria Rose

    After I sent in this post, I thought of 2 more that I really enjoyed that I missed getting on my list! They are Dirty Talk by Megan Erickson where mechanic Brent falls for sassy Ivy, a single mom to her young daughter Violet. Loved seeing Brent abandon his bachelorhood for this woman! And the other one is Star Dust by Emma Barry and Genevieve Turner. That one is different for being set in the 1960s, about a newly divorced woman with 2 children who moves in next door to an astronaut! I totally had visions of I Dream of Jeannie reading it, and I loved the action scenes of Kit going into orbit (which I subsequently dreamed about too, so the book obviously made a lasting impression).

  5. Sharlene Wegner

    I have read What To Do With a Bad boy & loved that book & the whole series! Also, Unwrapping Her Perfect Match – so good! I would like to add a few by Carolyn Brown – Just a Cowboy and His Baby, How to Marry a Cowboy, The Cowboy’s Christmas Baby and Cowboy Boots for Christmas. Rachel Gibson has some good ones – Any Man of Mine, What I Love About You, Crazy On You, Daisy’s Back in Town & Not Another Bad Date.

  6. Terrill Harris Rosado

    Two of my favorite single parent romances are Kristen Ashley’s At Peace (single mom) and Golden Trail (single dad.) I also read a Harlequin Love Inspired Historical recently called The Rancher’s Christmas Proposal by Sherri Shackelford with a single dad. It was so cute and very funny. The toddlers in this story were written so well that I could relate.with my own kids.

    • Maria Rose

      Thanks! I had Ride Steady by Kristen Ashley on a much longer list but I had to trim it down for this post. I still have a lot of her backlist to read. Thanks for commenting!

  7. kermitsgirl

    This is a much more acceptable child-related trope to me than the secret baby trope. Having been a product of a family “bush” as we called it, I find it easy to connect to these types of stories, and I like seeing the step-parents being accepted into the lives of an already established family.

    There is a new series from Linda Ford, under the Love Inspired Historical Harlequin series, that I’ve really enjoyed in this trope.

    “The Cowboy’s Ready-Made Family” features an aunt, with a history of emotional abuse, trying to raise her newly orphaned nieces and nephews, and her neighbor who is a “half-breed” American Indian who never felt accepted by society. It was interesting to read not only about trying to be accepted in a relationship, but also feeling “worthy” of the other person because of their histories.

    “The Cowboy’s Baby Bond” features a newly widowed single mother who is trying to set up a new life for her son and her two younger sisters, and a cowboy who’s been used by a woman in the past to try and give her unborn child from another man a name. This also featured a “half-breed” (he’s the younger brother of the first hero), but it doesn’t really delve into that aspect of the relationship, which I liked since we already dealt with that in the first book. This one focused on secrets and trust.

    Of course, I don’t recommend these books if you’re looking for bedroom scenes, since they’re Christian romance novels. I like to mix it up from the really raunchy erotica to these, with all levels of heat in between, to keep my reading interesting and fresh 🙂

    • Maria Rose

      I’m definitely not a fan of the secret baby trope either!! It’s probably my least favourite trope of all the ones out there. I haven’t read any of the Love Inspired books by HQN but I’ll look into them. I do like to vary the heat level in my books, though at the moment I seem to be mostly reading ones on the higher end of the scale 😀